I've decided to do my own countdown. I am actually relaxing and bumming. Not really doing anything. I've decided the marriage is the one that counts, not the wedding. After a few years my wedding will just be a distant memory. So better to prepare for the marriage than to want to impress people with my wedding. But yes I can slowly feel the excitement building, bit by bit. I think in 3 or 4 months time I will be feeling it more and more.